Matt Fradd
We believe that you are worth fighting for.
We understand how truly destructive it is to live with problematic sexual behaviors.
Pornography use is driven by a need to numb pain. This pain is often emotional pain, the shame of ones past behaviors, and often a deep seated belief that a person cannot be and does not deserve to be loved. What many fear most is that those they love will discover who they truly are, and that their fears of being undeserving of love will be confirmed.
We honestly believe that you deserve to be continuously fought for. Here at Developing Grace we understand how crippling it is to endure the trauma that comes with the reality of knowing that your partner is abusive.
Compounded by lying, gaslighting, sexual coercion, and more, you are a multi-dimensional abuse victim and you need support, safety, and education about abuse and trauma. We are here to help support you on this road of healing.
Patrick J. Carnes
We honestly believe that you deserve to be fought for. We understand how truly crippling it is to endure the trauma that comes with the reality of knowing that your partner is abusive.
With lying, gaslighting, sexual coercion, and more, you are a multi-dimensional abuse victim and you need support, safety, and education about abuse and trauma. We are to help support you on this road towards healing.
"No trial has confronted you except what a person can stand. God is faithful, and he will not allow you to be tried beyond your strength. But together with the trial he will also provide a way out and the strength to bear it."
1 Corinthians 10:13
"We also glory in our sufferings, because we realize that suffering develops perseverance, and perseverance produces character, and character produces hope. Such hope will not be doomed to disappointment, because the love of God has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us."
Romans 5:3-5
"Indeed, in our hearts we felt that we were under a sentence of death. This was so that we not put our trust in ourselves but in God who raises the dead."
2 Corinthians 1:9
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Lying is abusive, and the omission of is a lie!
We are continuously updating our list of free downloads, virtual courses, books, websites, go-to products, and other resources that will guide you on your road towards recovery!
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Our mission is to help others understand that they are not alone and to provide loving support to both those recovering from problematic sexual behaviors and those recovering from relational betrayal.
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Lying is abusive, and the
omission of is a lie!
Are you struggling or do you know someone struggling with pornography use?
Do you believe yourself to be a bad or unworthy person because of you or your partner's sexual behavior?
Do you or someone you know use sexual pleasure as a means of managing pain?
Do you live in a state of anxiety and feel fundamentally unsafe in the world due to your partners pornography use?
“There is no place for selfishness and no place for fear!
Do not be afraid, then, when love makes demands.
Do not be afraid when love requires sacrifice”
Saint John Paul II
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